Understanding the Significance of Your Words

Whether it’s a positive
or negative vibration,
the Law of Attraction
will give you more
of the same.

Words, Words, Words

 
Most of the tools and worksheets in this book are related to language, the use of words, and more importantly, the feelings generated by words.
As you read on in this book you’ll learn how words are the common denominator for all of the exercises in the Deliberate Attraction process.

Why Is There Such an Emphasis on Words? 

Words are everywhere. We speak them, read them, write them, think them, see them, type them, and hear them in our head. The reason the exercises in this book are all based on choosing precise words is because the words we think and use generate the vibration we send out. The word ‘homework’, for example, can cause some people to have a negative vibration and others to have a positive vibration. The word ‘money’ can hold a positive vibration for some people and a negative vibration for others. In the following pages you’ll learn which words are causing you to attract the things you don’t want.
Your thoughts are made up of words. Here is an illustration showing the connection between positive and negative vibrations, your thoughts, and your words.

Words That Are Causing You to Attract What You DON’T Want 

Don’t, Not and No
Don’t think of the Statue of Liberty in New York. I know that you just did! Your unconscious and conscious mind automatically filters out the words don’t, not and no. When you use these words you are actually internalizing in your mind the exact thing you are being told not to. For example, if I said “Do not think of a snowstorm,” I guarantee you would start thinking of a snowstorm almost immediately. Even though the instruction was not to do something, your unconscious and conscious mind edited out that part of the instruction.
There are other common expressions that give more attention and energy to what you DON’T want. Have you heard yourself use any of these statements?

 Don’t get mad
Don’t panic
I’m not blaming
No rush, no worry
Don’t hesitate to call me
Don’t look now
Don’t be fooled
Don’t run with scissors
Don’t worry
Don’t forget
I don’t want this to hurt
I don’t want my clients
Don’t litter
to cancel
Don’t smoke
Don’t be late
I’m not judging
Don’t slam the door

 The Law of Attraction responds the same way your mind does: it hears what you DON’T want. When you hear yourself make a statement containing the words don’t, not or no, you are actually giving attention and energy to what you DON’T want.
Here’s an effective and easy tool that will help you reduce and eventually eliminate the use of the words don’t, not and no from your vocabulary. Each time you hear yourself using don’t, not or no, ask yourself “So, what do I want?” Each time you talk about what you DON’T want, in that moment you are giving it your attention and energy. When you ask yourself what you DO want, the answer will have created a new sentence with new words. When your words change, your vibration changes, and the best news of all is that you can only send out one vibration at a time