How to Create Your Own Allowing Statement

It’s time for you to create your own Allowing Statement. The Allowing Statement is used when you hear yourself make statements of doubt. Build a list of these doubts. You may hear yourself saying “I can’t have that because...,” or “That won’t happen to me because...!” You can use the Allowing Statements worksheet on the next page to help build your Allowing Statements.

1st STEP: Uncover the Doubt

Reread your Desire Statement and use it to uncover any doubt you feel as a result of reading it. For example, if your desire statement says that your ideal job allows you to work a 4-day week and you hear a little voice inside you saying “That will never happen because...,” then jot down your doubt.

2nd STEP: Ask Yourself These Questions

Start by asking yourself whether there is anyone currently doing what you want to do or having what you want to have. If so, then how many people have been doing this today? Yesterday? Last week? Last month? Last year?

3rd STEP: Write in General Terms (in the 3rd person)

Write your statements in general terms because making reference to yourself often creates more doubt. Ensure that the statements are plausible.

Tool #1: Celebrate the Proof (Evidence)

Remember that to manifest your desire you need to remove the doubt. Doubt is what stops your desire from coming to you. The best way to remove doubt is to find proof. Scientists, for example, only believe something after it’s been proven. Like most of us, when someone proves something to us, we often say “Okay, I believe it now. I can see the proof.” Here’s how to use proof (evidence) to your advantage.

Have you noticed when something you desire starts showing up in your life, even just a little bit, it excites you? For example, you attract a bit of information you’ve been looking for, or you meet someone who is a pretty close match to your ideal partner or your ideal client. All of this is proof (evidence) of the Law of Attraction at work in your life.

How you observe proof (evidence) of the Law of Attraction is important. In some cases, people might say “Oh, this isn’t exactly what I want,” or “He’s not quite the right person I was looking for,” or “It’s kind of close but not really.” Saying or thinking these kinds of phrases creates a negative vibration.

When you find and experience proof (evidence) of the Law of Attraction, celebrate it by acknowledging how close you came to getting what you desired. It’s in the celebration of the closeness of the match that you offer more vibration of what you desire, and at that moment, the Law of Attraction is responding to your vibration. Remember, the Law of Attraction does not care whether you are remembering, pretending, playing, creating, complaining or worrying. It simply responds to your vibration and sends you more of the same. So find proof and rejoice.

Janice, who is using the Law of Attraction to attract her ideal relationship, is a great example of how this tool can be used to lessen doubt.

Shortly after Janice completed her Desire Statement and started using the Allowing tools, she met a man who was a visitor to her city. They hit it off right away. They had lots in common including a love of music, theatre, and movies. She was really impressed by his good communication skills and how upbeat he was. Three days later, Janice called me and I could hear some disappointment in her voice. She spent lots of time and attention describing her disappointment that he was from another country (thus, including what she didn’t want in her Vibrational Bubble). Yet I knew he was a close match to her desire and that she was not acknowledging that fact. My job was to help her include all those things that were a match in her Vibrational Bubble.

Here’s how I used this tool with Janice. I simply asked her to tell me all the things about her new relationship that excited her. In other words, the things that were in her Desire Statement that made her feel great. She quickly built a list that included his great communication skills; his love of music, theatre, and movies; his values; and how happy she felt around him. Janice could feel her vibration rise the moment she started creating this list. Finding and celebrating the closeness of the match shifted her vibration immediately. As Janice began recalling and noticing the closeness of the match she was once again including this vibration in her Vibrational Bubble.

And you know how the Law of Attraction responds to that!