I’ll use the word ‘relationship’ here to indicate many kinds of relationships – perhaps your ideal partner, business relationship, your relationship with your children, parents, neighbors, work colleagues, students or clients.
Now we’ll get started by using the 3-step formula for Law of Attraction to learn how to attract your ideal relationship.
Reminder: The Contrast you’ve experienced in the past will be helpful for your future.
Knowing what you didn’t like about a past partner or a past date is very useful to you. You can use this information to help you get clarity about the kind of partner you do want. For example, if you don’t want someone who works too much, what do you want? If you don’t want someone who is not adventurous, what do you want? If you don’t want someone who is not interested in dancing, who is not romantic, or not a good listener etc., what do you want?
Understanding what you don’t want will help you generate more clarity about what you do want and your clarity becomes your new, clear desire! The easiest way to do this is to say to yourself “So, what do I want?” It sounds simple and it is! When you change your observation from what you don’t want to what you do want, the vibration changes. When you change your vibration, the results will change! Notice too, how you feel when you get clear about something. It feels good when we say “Oh! That’s exactly what I’d like!” This new clarity has now become your desire and that is the first step to manifesting your ideal relationship.
If you’re not truly offering a vibration of the way you want it to be, then the Law of Attraction cannot respond to it. In other words, you are saying that you want THIS kind of person but you are sending out a vibe that is different than your desire. One way to check what vibration you are sending out is to observe what you ARE receiving in your life. It’s always a perfect match to whatever you are offering ‘vibrationally’.
Most people while in the process of attracting their ideal relationship will often spend time noticing that they have NOT been attracting exactly what they want. That noticing is causing them to send out the vibration of lack (a negative vibration). Stop observing what you are NOT attracting and you’ll stop giving it your attention, energy and focus. Your job is to look for the parts of a relationship or the characteristics of a date that ARE matching your desire list and give those your attention! Your vibration will change and the Law of Attraction will bring you more of the same!
Most people while in the process of attracting their ideal relationship will often spend time noticing that they have NOT been attracting exactly what they want. That noticing is causing them to send out the vibration of lack (a negative vibration). Stop observing what you are NOT attracting and you’ll stop giving it your attention, energy and focus. Your job is to look for the parts of a relationship or the characteristics of a date that ARE matching your desire list and give those your attention! Your vibration will change and the Law of Attraction will bring you more of the same!